This Veterans Day, amid declining public trust in the military and persistently high suicide rates among former service members, a growing chorus argues that America’s expressions of gratitude have become hollow rituals — and that rebuilding genuine respect starts with how we educate the next generation.
The Disconnect Between Symbolism and Substance
While social media fills with flag emojis and retailers promote Veterans Day sales, Rachael Culpepper of American Heritage Girls warns that true honor requires confronting uncomfortable realities. Military veterans die by suicide at rates 56.5% higher (for men) and 99.9% higher (for women) than civilian peers, with loneliness being a key factor. An AARP survey found 38% of veterans over 45 experience chronic isolation — nearly 5 million Americans.
Separating Policy From People
The article highlights a recurring historical pattern: Vietnam veterans faced public scorn for decisions made by policymakers, not soldiers. Today, as debates rage over U.S. involvement in conflicts like strikes against Iran, Culpepper emphasizes that service members “simply faithfully answered when their country called” — a distinction often lost in polarized times. Trust in the military has plummeted from 70% in 2018 to below 50% today.
From Lip Service to Lifelong Respect
Practical solutions include youth programs that move beyond abstract patriotism. American Heritage Girls organizes activities like veteran brunches, cemetery cleanups, and flag retirement ceremonies. Culpepper stresses that meaningful gestures needn’t be elaborate — even inviting a local veteran for coffee and listening to their stories can combat isolation while modeling authentic gratitude for children.
The challenge, experts argue, is extending reverence beyond the uniform. Veterans bring unique leadership, teamwork, and civic-mindedness to communities long after active duty ends. “Our country doesn’t ask every soldier to give his or her life,” the piece notes, “but every one of them is willing to.”
Source: www.dailywire.com — https://www.dailywire.com/news/how-to-teach-kids-what-honoring-veterans-really-requires